How’s the ‘no sugar thing’ going?
Over the holidays I was asked a million times how the ‘no sugar thing’ was going – which was actually a nice break from the usual ‘when are you having kids’ interrogation. However, I found it a hard question to answer. Maybe because the last month I’ve just been taking it meal by meal and not really stopping to think about things. I haven’t even written you guys a good blog in a while!
My typical answer is “good – hard, but good.” Which is true. It has been good and I’ve been learning a lot about my food choices and how they affect my body. For example, my recent reliance on plain kettle potato chips as a comfort food has been wreaking havoc on my skin. On days that I eat as many vegetables as possible, I have crazy awesome energy and my mood improves greatly! After stringing together a few days of eating as many vegetables as I can, I start dropping weight effortlessly. When I have a bad day – or week and decide that nachos for supper is about all I can muster, I bloat up like crazy and well, they say everybody poops… but I don’t after all that cheese.
I’ve actually been a little shocked about how much my mood influences my food choices. The nights when I would love to just order a pizza and eat my feelings have probably been the hardest. What the heck do I do with all these feelings if I can’t just eat them into submission?? Sometimes I just sulk or live in a moody fog of anger for a couple of days until I get over myself. Other days I reach out to friends, family and my husband and actually let them know how I’m feeling. This has been incredible, seriously. I am not an overly open person and this whole ‘no sugar thing’ is forcing me to be more open and turn to those that I love for advice and to be my sounding board. I can’t even tell you how much pressure it takes off hearing someone say, “I understand.” My other go-to for those rough days is to hit the gym. It’s definitely harder to get there on bad days, but the payoff is totally worth the effort. Working out boosts those feel good hormones and makes me want to eat more veggies – it’s a win-win!
So do you feel better?
Yes and no. I feel absolutely amazing that I can turn down chocolate or dessert and not feel sad about it anymore. The first month or two were really hard for this and to be honest Christmas was little bit harder than the regular day to day. But it feels so empowering to say no and actually mean it.
Quitting sugar didn’t magically change my life and everything is not suddenly perfect. To be honest, a little part of me hoped that would happen. After learning about how ‘evil’ sugar is, I created a bit of an illusion for myself that giving it up would be the solution to all my problems. I would lose tons of weight, become super happy all the time and skip around merrily all day long. There are good days, but there are still bad days. Skipping the sugar has definitely made it easier to eat healthy, but there are ways to eat around sugar and still not fuel my body in good ways. It reminds me of someone I once knew that was a vegetarian who seemed to only eat cheese pizza and candy. Eliminating a food, whether it’s sugar, meat, carbs, dairy, or whatever else people are avoiding these days, doesn’t automatically make you healthy. You have to replace what you’ve taken out with nutrient dense healthy foods. And just as importantly, you have to work on the mental and emotional aspects that drive your behaviour.
‘No sugar 2016’ has been full of surprises and life lessons so far and I’m anticipating many more in 2017.
Yours in awesomeness,